I don’t have that answer. Suffering hurts. Suffering sucks. But for some reason we all have to go through it. I wish we didn't but we do. I wish we could figure out a way to say goodbye to people we love without it shattering our hearts and throwing our world in the chaos. I wish we didn’t break so easily. But we do. And I don't know why. When we break, I know someone or something sweeps us up and puts the pieces back together. Although we are never the same. Maybe that's the point.